Hmm okay- firstly, which subjects have you been studying in college? Is there anything that you particularly excel in? Why are you so certain that your friends don’t care about you? Sometimes, they may not show it at all but they secretly do.  I also think that you ought to open up to them more, so that they can know and understand you better! I think it all you need to do is love yourself- it’s incredibly hard for someone to love you, if you don’t love yourself, right? You may hate your face and body, but you’ll never know if someone out there would do anything to have the features and traits that you do! I think you should really take your time with boyfriends, wait till you find someone whom you really love and care about than to search for short-term, summer flings! One, lasting relationship is always better than having many.  You don’t need to e like everyone else; you are you, remember that.  Let the time come, and believe that God has plans for you, alright? :-)

I can see why you’re afraid about telling everyone the truth.  I guess it would be a nice thing to do since you’re graduating and perhaps its the best time to reveal this part of you to people.  Maybe like you said, it’s probably a better choice to just tell a few close friends if you’re feeling intruded about letting everyone know about who you really are. I also think that it’s more important that you tell this guy that you like as well, it’s best not to keep any secrets between the both of you if your friendship advances into something more, right? :-)

Good luck! x

Maybe because they’re jealous of what you have and what they don’t? You know, Maddie, I’ll give anything to be as tall and thin as you are, so chances are, they’ll probably be jealous of you.  And plus, everyone wants to be skinny these days so what makes you think that they’re proud of their curvy bodies? And they’re wrong as well since most boys are muscular rather than thin, so I don’t think they’re making the right comparison there. :P

It’s okay, don’t listen to what they say, just know that there are so many other girls out there who would admire you for what you have, one of them being me. :-)

I think I can understand how you feel, but I can reassure you know that as an individual, I’m completely neutral to all different kinds of religions and beliefs, and I’m sure there are people out there who are too.  All I can really say is, people will only respect you if you respect yourself.  There’s nothing wrong with being Muslim, but I think you should be proud of yourself. Acknowledge yourself as one, and others can be left to say what they like, because there’s nothing wrong in believing what you believe, and thus other people would have no justified reason to judge you for it.  If they do, brush them aside and keep your head held high.  Be proud of who you are- people are just stereotypical, just because a hoard of terrorists believe in the same religion does not make that religion in anyway “blemished”.  Be proud of who you are, and people will respect you for that, trust me.

Hmm, firstly, are you keen on going to this movie with him? If you’ll like to show him that the furthest the both of you can go is just being friends, then maybe you might consider turning him down and probably telling him explicitly, if need be that you don’t see this relationship enhancing into something more.  

If you’re not sure as to whether he really likes you or not, maybe leave this for a while until he explicitly shows that he has a thing for you. :-)

Hope this helps!

Hmm okay, maybe you should text him first, and if he doesn’t respond to you, leave it for a few days, or maybe a week or so.  If he still doesn’t respond, then yes, I would say go ahead and ask him face to face. :)

Aw thank you so much, I hope you know how much this means to me. c:

Hmm, have you considered the fact that he may be really “busy”? I don’t think asking him what’s going on would sound too desperate, and in fact, the best way to make sure of this is to ask him directly.  I’m sure you’ll like him to come clean so you really know how he feels right? I don’t think he’s merely trying to “get rid” of you, but perhaps he really does have a busy schedule? If you really do like him, and you know that his feelings for you are true, then why not give it a shot? Sometimes moving on isn’t just the answer, especially when you’ve grown so attached to a person, it takes time.

Maybe you should let him know that? :-) I’m sure he’ll understand that you’re not yet sure about your feelings, and you’re not yet prepared for a relationship yet, but you’ll wish to get closer to him and understand him more! I don’t think he’ll mind it at all, just sit him down and let him know about how you feel.

I can see why you’d be shy, but hey, just say something nice like “hi” and just initiate the conversation if you’d like to know him better!